Life Lessons: On My Way To 35

Life has presented several challenges over the last five or six months. I’ve been meaning to sit down and type it all up but every time I get started, another curveball comes my way. I might work my way backwards for this one.

Black Girls Are Magic…Don’t Debate Me.

  One of my favorite sweatshirts has ‘Black Girls Are Magic’ across the front. It isn’t too fancy – just a black hoodie with white scripted font. I wore it to work a month or so ago. I’m walking down the hallway and one of my coworkers is walking towards me. She pauses when she…

I Feel Some Type of Way… STUPID

I feel some type of way. This makes me feel some kind of way.   This is not a new phrase. I’ve heard it several times, and each time I’ve expressed my displeasure in the saying. It is stupid. It is terrible. It is lazy.   I was okay with just ignoring the people who…

I have commitment issues…

  Not the relationship kind that would prevent me from settling down. If I found a guy that I really liked and he genuinely liked me, that wouldn’t be a problem. Nope. And it’s not commitment in terms of work. I know this sounds crazy, but I love to work. The feeling of accomplishment and satisfaction…

Stepping out of my comfort zone…again.

I like to be comfortable. I think just about everyone does. The problem arises when I’m miserable but comfortable. I’m on my way there. My job situation needs to change quickly. I’m not challenged, there is no room for growth or development, I don’t use my brain. It’s terrible. While I joke about not wanting…

Wait…that doesn’t make any sense.

I’m a really nice person. I really am. I have to remember to smile more, but that has a lot to do with everything going on my head. I tend to get lost in thought and my thinking face doesn’t include a smile all of the time. But that’s neither here nor there. I happen…